This I believe: Essence of Freedom
I believe in freedom
I believe in opportunity
I believe in choice
I believe in risks
I believe that we are faced with such challenges in life to become stronger individuals. We may feel as if we are trapped but in reality we all are free.
Freedom is something that we all have, but we take it for granted. We take into consideration whether we are physically free, but not mentally. As an individual gets older they face more troubles: stress, work, acceptance and so on – this begins to make an impact on them. It becomes a burden on them. With their own thinking against them they begin to regret a lot of things that they could’ve been involved with. They dig their grave deeper and deeper, they don’t understand that everyone already have freedom, and they are just constraining them self because of their own thinking. They chase freedom even though it is like the end of a rainbow; it’s an optical illusion – there’s nothing there, everyone already has it, if they don’t, it’s because their thinking is constraining them.
It’s the mental fight that I didn’t win until I had faced a challenge when it was the summer of 2019. Since my younger days I had the issue with thoughts that I should become the person that the people around me need and would like. I had decided to put others first rather than not focusing on myself. This has put me in a cage with where I am not able to think and do what I wanted. We were told to be selfless and think of others, this had been engraved into my mind and has impacted me in to not think for myself.
Throughout my life I had just thought of others despite looking at myself. Without taking into account what I can do, I had fallen into a very depressive state. I wouldn’t talk about how my feelings and wouldn’t try to do new things, didn’t try to change my ways. I had only felt comfortable when I was by myself, theoretically I threw myself into a cage where it was impossible to get out. It was a void of darkness that I trapped myself in, even though I had people to get me through this dark time it felt as if I had to accomplish such a goal by myself. It hurts thinking about pushing away the people that tried to help. My mom was very prominent in me finding my true identity. I had kept my feelings trapped inside me and expressing them, they had just built up ready to blow up.
With school over I had two months to myself, being able to try new things but there was just a little voice within my had that was telling me to say no or think about what this person would say on what I was doing would they accept this. Even though my intentions were positive I had troubles with being able to go forward with it. I had tried to open up about my feelings. My feelings had been what held me back and with them being out of the way I would be able to lift some weight off my shoulders.
In the summer I had tried to push for me express who I am and become of an individual and free. I had went through a difficult summer. I was forced to do work that I didn’t enjoy, with me not expressing what I wanted and allowing for other to decide for me. Until the death of my grandpa during this time period my family was going through a lot and I had been there to help. I didn’t now my grandpa as much and didn’t have a connection with him in this time I was given a speech by my mother. She had talked to me and expressed how I should not worry as much embrace life. There was more within in this speech that had pushed me to for fill what I desire. It may seem as if I could’ve accomplished such a task by myself yet I couldn’t. There were chains that needed to be broken.
With me lifting my feelings and becoming a stronger individual I was able to get opportunities by making risks.