January 19

Polished Visual

Innocence is a quality which all humans have which brings out the greater good of all by helping others instead of being selfish. In the visual, the author is portraying the idea individuals who must commit ruthless acts  are not doing so for themselves but to help the greater good. In the visual you can see a soldier feeding a tiny, helpless kitten in a trench during the Korean war. The soldier is behind sandbags which provide cover and his helmet is rested on his knee while he is solely focused on making sure the kitten is well. He also has a ring of his right ring finger which means he is most likely has a family of his own. Not knowing if you’ll ever come back to your family is a scary thought, leaving them all alone just as this kitten was left completely alone. In a way the soldier must think it’s his responsibility to take care of this kitten because he is able to help it and be there for it unlike his family. The soldiers clothing is also clean which shows that he was not engaged in combat recently and that this kitten provides hope for him to get home and that he cares for it more than anything else. All individuals, on either side of conflict are fighting for their others and are doing so for the greater good, they do not fight for themselves and all individuals share a sense of innocence which promotes their selflessness.

 

Innocence is what influences us to make selfless choices in order to help those around us rather than ourselves, it guides us to do what is morally correct. When I was just another trouble making kid who would play in his backyard with his sibling, I found a baby bird which was unable to fly due to what seemed to be an injury, when I tried to pick it up the first time it screamed in fear and was trying to escape my grasp. As I let it go I knew that I could just leave it be or try to help it until it was able to survive back outside again, I later came back with a milk crate and me and my family kept him in their for a bit feeding him very often inside our home. Two months later me and my sister were debating on whether we should keep him or let him be free. The bird had become less fearful of us but he was still scared when one of us tried to hold him. My sister wanted to keep him while I believed it would be better if we had left him go back out in the wild where he belongs and hopefully he would find his family. My innocence is what helped me let him go, knowing the bird would most likely want to fly freely instead of being caged up for the rest of his life and this decision was supported by my parents too.

 

Individuals must make selfless choices in order to help others and these choices are reached by embracing innocence and doing what is morally correct. All humans are capable of feeling innocence and all we need is to be presented with a situation to provide hope to another living being. Providing hope to others also leaves us feeling better knowing what we did helped someone else and that now they have the potential to do the same for another. This feeling also provides us with hope and can comfort us of our fears and we can leave this world happy knowing we made another life better just by committing a small act.

October 30

Steps to Success

“Don’t complain, just work harder”

-Randy Pausch

 

 

Complaining is a commonly expressed by individuals who are unsatisfied because they were presented with unfavorable circumstances. When individuals are complaining their motivation towards a goal decreases and they may feel these obstacles are too much for them to overcome. It is a form of self-pity which is completely useless when it comes to the succeeding and Randy Pausch recognizes this. Randy expresses how you should just work harder towards your goal in order to succeed because complaining won’t get you anywhere. Failure is a common source of complaints so if you work harder you will have a higher chance of success which will ultimately lead to less complaints. Failure is inevitable and one will always be presented with difficulties but it should motivate us to do better instead of leading to self-pity.

I have learned through first-hand experience that complaining is a complete and utter waste of time; however, when I do complain, I’ll remember those excuses and when try harder and complete whatever goal I have, and then I will know for next time that complaining didn’t help me get anything done. A particular experience was over the summer of 2017, I was playing basketball with a friend and our goal was to train all summer to be the best we could be for the basketball team. He was more experienced so I became his follower and I would do every drill he told me to do but at first I never saw the point of running around when I could stay in place. I’d complain about why I was running around so much and he’d tell me to just suck it up and keep going, eventually I stopped complaining and I started to just work harder and persevere which led me to improving a tremendous amount more than I thought possible and it was because I decided to work harder instead of making excuses for myself.

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Time is very valuable, successful people recognize this and the number one thing they share in common is that they don’t complain. Complaining is detrimental to success due to the fact there may others you are competing with who are taking the right steps by not complaining and this better use of time will ultimately be the difference between you reaching your maximum potential of success. Competition is very common in our society and to win and do the best you possibly can you should cut out the irrelevant things which don’t benefit you and use that time to achieve more than you thought was possible.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

September 17

Growth and Acceptance

Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.

Napoleon Hill

Growth is becoming better than who you were yesterday by making mistakes and learning how to deal with them in the future. It’s anything you can work on daily through experiences you’re not accustomed to. Setting a small specific goal like going to sleep at 10:00 pm every night is one way to grow and better yourself because with more sleep you’ll be able to perform better in school and this will help you attain your main goal of getting into university and so on. As of now these smaller goals are what I’m focusing on but these aren’t what got me to believe in growth. I was always really attached to my grandfather and he was healthy throughout my whole childhood but that all quickly changed when he diagnosed with blood cancer, leukemia, and although it was shocking I didn’t know how dangerous leukemia was because I was unaware it was a type of a cancer. He won his fight with cancer the first time through a bone marrow transplant and we thought he’d be fine but cancer doesn’t give up easily and it had came back. He also had problems with his lungs since leukemia weakened his body and he had got chronic bronchitis which was only getting worse as his body weakened. When he was rushed to the hospital I wasn’t really worried because I thought it was going to be another hospital rest but my cousin said it had gotten really bad and eventually later that night we had figured out he passed away and even though my aunts and uncles were crying alongside my mother, me and my cousins couldn’t find ourselves to cry but were rather shocked instead of saddened. I didn’t cry at all and I didn’t feel like a bad person because of it but it was a lot different during his funeral. Up until everyone started walking by his body I was perfectly fine but as soon as I saw his lifeless body I broke down and cried more than I ever had in my life and I felt so weak I couldn’t stand. That by far was the worst time of my life and a week after the funeral I decided I never wanted to go through that pain and this made me change my beliefs and I realized that life is cruel and that everything we do will eventually mean nothing when all is gone. I now don’t stay as attached to anything and this has saved me a lot of pain and it helps me get through emotional times by staying positive since I know it will all mean nothing and I should just live my best life. Growth is something everyone strives for but most don’t know how to grow and I believe the number one thing on growing is being able to accept anything that happens because until you let go of your feelings you won’t really grow. Not caring about the past and accepting what happened is the best way for you to move on from an experience and by looking at what went wrong you can better yourself to deal with situations in the future.